Living Life Full Force Blog (#LLFF)
Dip into the mind of Sabriya, Life Discovery Expert, along with the minds of guest interviewees and bloggers. Get a crash course on life as we know it.
LET’S TALK MENTAL WELLNESS
COLLEGE AND MENTAL HEALTH: A SERIES
EXPERIENCE LIFE CHASING AND EXPLORATION
CONVERSATIONS WITH AN EXPERT SERIES
“In our fast-paced world, stress has become an unwelcome companion for many. The first step in effectively managing stress is identifying its sources. Today, Gloria will delve into several key points to help you pinpoint the causes of stress in your life and chart a course for effective management.”
“Being able to balance large and small acts of self care in this crazy and chaotic world can help us balance the stress of life and work. Taking mindful moments and asking ourselves what our body needs in the moment can make a large difference in our stress and anxiety levels, even with it being a small thing that is overlooked by many. Putting our minds and our bodies first through the implementation of long-term self care acts is important to ensuring we are able to manage our stress in this post-pandemic world.”
“Good mental health leads to academic and career success. Ashley uses the metaphor of a garden to show the effect of our mental health on our life achievements. “When you have a garden and you are planting new fruits and vegetables, if you're not giving care to those plants [watering, pruning, and plucking weeds] all sorts of insects and weeds are going to take over your garden… if you are taking care of yourself, which could be as simple as going outside or meditating… this is comparable to taking care of your garden.” Taking care of our minds and our bodies is very important. If we don't take care of ourselves, the weeds will grow up in our brain and create burn out because we are not giving ourselves the time or attention we need. Giving ourselves love and grace is essential to success within our lives.”
“Everyone needs someone they can laugh with and cry to, isn’t that what friends are for? Friendships can bring extreme value to your life and create a healthy and positive support system for your toughest life challenges. However, not all friendships are positive and healthy. How do we know when to walk away, and what is the next step?”
“While religion can have strengths and challenges, it is important to have an open mindset and continue to give yourself and others grace as well as compassion. As QuiAnne’ mentioned earlier, professionals should be holistic in their approach to helping someone navigate the challenges of religion and any hardships they have faced. It is also vital to understand how disenfranchised groups can be affected by religion and how personal culture as well as mental health ties into the discussion of religion and how we are impacted by religious practices.”
“Have you ever thought that you were under-qualified for a job offer you received and only got the job because you ‘got lucky?’ Or have you ever felt like a fraud after graduating from college because you believed that you do not deserve your academic achievements? Either way, there is a term to define this. This term is Imposter Syndrome.”
“It is important to find what you value and what is important to you… this can help identify what you do not seek in a relationship” Orlando-based counselor Stephanie says. The more you are sure of what you want and what will benefit you in a relationship, the easier it is to seek out those positive relationships and decipher which ones you should continue to keep.
COMPANY MENTAL WELLNESS
A common trend throughout my college experience is that students were going after careers that made a lot of money. You rarely hear someone say they want to go into a career because it makes them happy. But let's put it this way, if I came to your door and said I was going to give you a large check every 2 weeks but you have to give me your happiness in exchange.
Let’s break your life down into numbers. The average person’s lifespan is about 79 years. Within that time frame, we will spend 26 years sleeping, 7 years trying to go to sleep, 13 years working plus 1 year of overtime, 11 years screen time (tv, social media, etc), 4 years eating, 3 years traveling, 1 year exercising, 1 year for romance, and 1 year socializing. That’s a total of 68 years which means we have 11 years left and so much more that we do in life.
While remote employees and teams have many advantages, they also have challenges that they have to tackle by themselves. From my own experience, these challenges that I have experienced myself and still tend to struggle with on occasion. If you’re working from home and these resonate with you, you’re not alone. Many remote employees struggle with these as well.
As company leaders, it’s crucial to treat your employees as people rather than money makers. Acknowledge that they are probably struggling mentally during a time like this. If you ignore that then you are part of the problem. So ask yourself, are you part of the problem?
The world is starting to realize that just because you can’t see it, doesn’t mean it isn’t extremely detrimental to the overall happiness of our society. We spend most of our day working, whether it be in an office or at home. This means that mental health practices need to be at the forefront of companies.
One of the questions I get most often when discussing a potential retreat with clients is, “How do you make sure the participants stay engaged?” Our retreats vary from 2 to 8 hours so that’s a valid question. These days, distraction is at an all time high considering many of us are working from home.
Many companies have shifted to working remotely so knowing how to keep your employees productive can seem like a daunting task for company leaders. As a mental empowerment retreat company, we specialize in the topic of productivity and I’m going to let you in on some secrets. Here are 4 ways company leaders can keep their employees productive while working from home:
There are many ways to create a thriving work experience for staff that helps the bottom line and the employees at the same time. Everything starts with understanding the actual needs and desires of team members all the way from the first point of contact. With a workforce-driven focus, this translates to better client services and better production outcomes.
Some people might not even realize what they’re doing at the beginning because unfortunately actions of this kind have been classified as “a part of business.” This perception places the company and its employees on a self-sabotaging path. One of the most important things a company should have is trust.
The pandemic has turned everyone’s world upside down. We were forced into a different world and we have to acknowledge that in order to move forward we must change the way we do things. We have to slow down and check in with ourselves. It’s become way too easy to spiral into darkness and that’s why we have to help each other and lift each other up. That’s the only way we can get through this.
Although I didn’t know it at the time, when I was growing up my parents taught me the importance of mental health. I was always encouraged to talk about my emotions and never questioned the validity of them because I was taught that mental health is just like a broken bone that you can’t see.
EXPLORE PERSONAL JOURNEYS
In a world where finding the bad exceeds looking for the good, people are feeling more lost and depressed than ever. They are often not in the category of being diagnosed with an official disorder, but they still are living with an immense struggle in the day to day.
“Befriend people completely different from you. And I don’t mean just say hi, call them acquaintances, and go about your day. I mean really get to know them. Share your secrets with them. Swap your life stories. Travel with them, even if it’s just a quick road trip. It’s scary to be vulnerable to anyone, let alone to someone completely different from you.”
“No matter where you are in life, there is always a place for you to have a 180. If we could get to a place to say I am okay with being vulnerable, people can support each other. It is always better when you have us verses me.”
Thea Butler, however, chose a unique study abroad path that allowed her to visit Hawaii, Japan, Shanghai, Hong Kong, Vietnam, Myanmar, India, Mauritius, South Africa, Ghana, Morocco, and Portugal all in one semester. How? By sailing 26.245 land miles around the world through the Semester at Sea program.
Henry took one of the greatest leaps in his life by living in Germany as an exchange student for a year. Having a deeper perspective of the world around him has made him into the person he is today.
Hannah has been around the world and back. However, her experience in Italy dug into her heart more than anything because it gave her an even closer look of the world around her.
Tamarah never imagined she would live in another country for an entire semester of college. From a small town to seeing the big world, after staying in Europe, her life was forever changed.
“The reason behind my own travels are rooted in my goal to grow as a person. To know myself better, to heal from past struggles, and to mature intellectually by becoming less ignorant and more aware.”
When time stops during tragedy, it is like the world keeps going while you live in a world of despair. But as you recover, tragedy changes you in a way that you cannot explain to others unless they know the pain.
It is not normal for people to take off their life vest when they are not even sure if they can swim. Well, I must be quite odd because my life vest has been ripped to shreds. I better get to paddling and kicking. Diving practice it is!
Okay, so who is this Sabriya girl? And why did she make this thing called Project Passport? I am sure that you have a ton of questions and I hope this article answers most of them. Project Passport really started out as a “That would be really cool IF I did it.” Well now it is a, “I am REALLY doing this” and I am so excited about every minute of it!